This book will help you correct 9 counterproductive mistakes nice people make every day.Look inside at the book's Contents page that lists them, and see if they don't make you feel like you're looking in a mirror!You quite quickly will learn how to:-- Let go of your need to be perfect and please everyone all the time.
-- Say "no" to requests for your skills, energy and time, and feel great doing so.
-- Tell others what you want from them, and receive it, without appearing selfish.
-- Express anger without blowing up and harming your valued relationships
-- Disarm those who wrongly or irrationally criticize or attack you.
-- Be both honest with, and gracious toward, those who fail or disappoint you.
-- Cease giving advice to others and feel good simply giving them information.
-- Be genuinely helpful to addicted loved ones, rather than trying to rescue them.
-- Stop attempting to protect those in grief and begin supporting them.
